

One. Theme: The story’s theme
is the danger of a particular type of narcissism: intellectual pride.
Anders is book smart but not savvy. His intellectual pride blinds him from being street smart (you have skills in dealing with humans and real life conflicts in an improvisational manner.
Two. Signs That Anders Is Not
Street Smart
- He
doesn’t know how to make allies among his enemies. 200
- His
sarcasm doesn’t hit the right note because it’s too strident. 200, 201
- He
can’t turn off his supercilious sarcasm when the situation warrants it.
201
- He
doesn’t know when to talk and when to shut up. 202
- He
has allowed his critic persona to take over his entire personality and
this has given him delusions of omnipotence resulting in his death. 203
- His
flashbacks punctuated by “he didn’t remember” all the meaningful moments
of his life show a man who grew increasingly lonely.
Three. Types of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
Narcissists are either
"Cerebral" (derive their narcissistic supply from their intelligence
or academic achievements) - or "Somatic" (derive their narcissistic
supply from their physique, exercise, physical or sexual prowess and romantic
or physical "conquests").
Narcissists are
"Classic", "Compensatory", or "Inverted". The
classic narcissist is self-confident, the compensatory narcissist covers up in
his haughty behavior for a deep-seated deficit in self-esteem, and the inverted
type is a co-dependent who caters to the emotional needs of a classic
narcissist.
Other typologies have been
suggested (for instance, the phallic vs. non-phallic narcissist).
Prevalence and Age and Gender
Features
According to the DSM IV-TR,
between 2% and 16% of the population in clinical settings (between 0.5-1% of
the general population) are diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder
(NPD).
A slight majority of narcissists
(50-75%, according to the DSM-IV-TR) are men. Narcissistic traits are common
among adolescents, but few go on to develop the full-fledge disorder. The disorder
becomes more acute a the narcissist grows older and is exacerbated by the onset
of aging and the physical, mental, and occupational restrictions.
Robert Milman suggested that under
constant public scrutiny and exposure, a transient and reactive form of the
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) can develop. He labelled it
"Acquired Situational Narcissism".
Studies have not demonstrated any
ethnic, social, cultural, economic, genetic, or professional predilection to
NPD.
Characteristics and Traits
A person diagnosed with the
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) feels grandiose and self-important. He
tends to exaggerates his accomplishments, talents, skills, contacts, and
personality traits to the point of lying.
He also demands to be recognized
as superior without commensurate achievements.
Narcissists are obsessed with
fantasies of unlimited success, fame, fearsome power or omnipotence, unequalled
brilliance (the cerebral narcissist), bodily beauty or sexual performance (the
somatic narcissist), or ideal, everlasting, all-conquering love or passion.
They are firmly convinced that he
or she is unique and, being special, can only be understood by, should only be
treated by, or associate with, other special or unique, or high-status people
(or institutions).
The narcissist requires excessive
admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation - or, failing that, wishes to
be feared and to be notorious. Such feedback is known as narcissistic supply
and the narcissist uses it to regulate his labile sense of self-worth.
The narcissist feels entitled. He
demands automatic and full compliance with his unreasonable expectations for
special and favorable priority treatment. A a result, he is often
"interpersonally exploitative", i.e., uses others to achieve his or
her own ends;
Narcissists lack empathy. They are
unable or unwilling to identify with, acknowledge, or accept the feelings,
needs, preferences, priorities, and choices of others.
They are constantly envious of
others and seek to hurt or destroy the objects of their resulting frustration.
They suffer from persecutory (paranoid) delusions because they believe that
others feel the same about them - seething with envy and resentment - and are
likely to act on these negative sentiments.
The narcissist is arrogant and
haughty. He feels superior, omnipotent, omniscient, invincible, immune,
"above the law", and omnipresent (magical thinking). Rages when
frustrated, contradicted, or confronted by people he considers inferior to him
and unworthy.
Clinical Features of the
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
The onset of pathological
narcissism is in infancy, childhood and early adolescence. It is commonly
attributed to childhood abuse and trauma inflicted by parents, authority
figures, or even peers. There are indications that heredity may be involved as
well.
Pathological narcissism is a
defense mechanism intended to deflect hurt and trauma from the victim's
"True Self" into a "False Self" which is omnipotent,
invulnerable, and omniscient. The narcissist uses the False Self to regulate
his or her labile sense of self-worth by extracting from his environment
narcissistic supply (any form of attention, both positive and negative).
Narcissistic supply is outside
attention - usually positive (adulation, affirmation, fame, celebrity) - used
by the narcissist to regulate his labile sense of self-worth.
There is a whole range of
narcissistic reactions, styles, and personalities – from the mild, reactive and
transient to the permanent personality disorder.
Patients with Narcissistic
Personality Disorder (NPD) feel injured, humiliated and empty when criticized.
They often react with disdain (devaluation), rage, and defiance to any slight,
real or imagined. To avoid such situations, some patients with Narcissistic Personality
Disorder (NPD) socially withdraw and feign false modesty and humility to mask
their underlying grandiosity. Dysthymic and depressive disorders are common
reactions to isolation and feelings of shame and inadequacy.
The interpersonal relationships of
patients with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are typically impaired
due to their lack of empathy, disregard for others, exploitativeness, sense of
entitlement, and constant need for attention (narcissistic supply).
Though often ambitious and
capable, inability to tolerate setbacks, disagreement, and criticism make it
difficult for patients with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) to work in
a team or to maintain long-term professional achievements. The narcissist's
fantastic grandiosity, frequently coupled with a hypomanic mood, is typically
incommensurate with his or her real accomplishments (the "grandiosity
gap").
Patients with Narcissistic
Personality Disorder (NPD) are either "cerebral" (derive their
Narcissistic Supply from their intelligence or academic achievements) or
"somatic" (derive their Narcissistic Supply from their physique,
exercise, physical or sexual prowess and romantic or physical
"conquests").
Patients with Narcissistic
Personality Disorder (NPD) are either "classic" (meet five of the
nine diagnostic criteria included in the DSM), or they are
"compensatory" (their narcissism compensates for deep-set feelings of
inferiority and lack of self-worth).
Some narcissists are covert, or
inverted narcissists. As codependents, they derive their narcissistic supply
from their relationships with classic narcissists.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is often diagnosed with other mental health disorders ("co-morbidity"), such as mood disorders, eating disorders, and substance-related disorders. Patients with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are frequently abusive and prone to impulsive and reckless behaviours ("dual diagnosis").
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
(NPD) is commonly diagnosed with other personality disorders, such as the
Histrionic, Borderline, Paranoid, and Antisocial Personality Disorders.
The personal style of those
suffering from the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) should be
distinguished from the personal styles of patients with other Cluster B
Personality Disorders. The narcissist is grandiose, the histrionic coquettish,
the antisocial (psychopath) callous, and the borderline needy.
As opposed to patients with the
Borderline Personality Disorder, the self-image of the narcissist is stable, he
or she are less impulsive and less self-defeating or self-destructive and less
concerned with abandonment issues (not as clinging).
Contrary to the histrionic
patient, the narcissist is achievements-orientated and proud of his or her
possessions and accomplishments. Narcissists also rarely display their emotions
as histrionics do and they hold the sensitivities and needs of others in
contempt.
According to the DSM-IV-TR, both
narcissists and psychopaths are "tough-minded, glib, superficial, exploitative,
and unempathic". But narcissists are less impulsive, less aggressive, and
less deceitful. Psychopaths rarely seek narcissistic supply. As opposed to
psychopaths, few narcissists are criminals.
Patients suffering from the range
of obsessive-compulsive disorders are committed to perfection and believe that
only they are capable of attaining it. But, as opposed to narcissists, they are
self-critical and far more aware of their own deficiencies, flaws, and
shortcomings.
Four. Study Questions and Sample Thesis Statements for “Mortals” by Tobias Wolff
- What
psychological profile of the narrator can we glean from the story’s first
3 pages? See page 5.
- What
“sin” is the narrator guilty of?
- What
is the connection between the narrator’s boss discovering his employee’s
negligence and the narrator’s discovery that his father had died on page
6? Death is like “getting caught”; it creates a nervous laughter, a coping
mechanism to treat our vulnerabilities and shortcomings as a joke.
- How
does the story divide the world into two groups on page 8? Those with a
consciousness of death and those who don’t have such a consciousness.
- What
is the story’s major theme? See page 8.
- What
does the story say about having a healthy relationship with our own
mortality? How can we turn this question into a thesis?
- What
evidence is there that the narrator is disaffected and disconnected from
the human race? See page 9.
- At
the top of page 10, the narrator says to Givens: “Somebody’s imagining you
dead. Thinking about it. The wish is father to the deed.” How are these
words true?
- Clearly,
the narrator suspects Givens to be the culprit of the fraud. But his
contempt for Givens goes further. Explain.
- Find
3 similarities between the narrator and Givens. See page 10 and 11.
- What
does the dialogue at the bottom of page 10 and the top of page 11 say
about American notions of success and failure?
- Givens’ act of affirming his
“loyalty” reveals what about him? Self-doubt.
- On
page 12, the narrator says he admires Givens for having experienced a “resurrection.”
Is this true? What is the story saying about the manner in which we
“resurrect” ourselves? We impose narratives, real or otherwise, that give
our lives a narrative arc, a shape, a structure, a meaning, that defies
the chaos, emptiness, and failure that afflicts us. We all wish to write
our own flattering obituary in other words. Our capacity for self-delusion
is infinite.
- Is
Givens’ confession the truth or simply uttered out of coercion?
Five. Sample Thesis Statements That Suffer from Being Too Obvious or General:
“Mortals” is a story about death.
“Mortals” explores a man’s
obsession with death.
Improved Thesis Statements:
“Mortals” is not a story about
death or mortality; rather, it is a story about two failed lives, the
narrator’s and Givens’, who, despising each other for their similarities, are
both mired in narcissistic self-pity and vain self-delusion alternated by
grandiose bouts of self-pity.
The “resurrection” mentioned in
the story is no resurrection at all; rather, it speaks to Givens’ desire to
write his own obituary, for doing so enables him to fulfill the ultimate
narcissistic fantasy: to gloss over his shortcomings, to exaggerate his
strengths, and to impose an artificial narrative shape to his shapeless,
meaningless existence.
Givens’ alleged “resurrection” is
no resurrection at all. Rather, it is a chimera that enables him to gloss over
his shortcomings, to exaggerate his strengths, and to impose an artificial
narrative shape to his shapeless, meaningless existence.
The narrator is convinced that
Givens called in his own obituary but in fact we have no definitive proof that
Givens committed such a fraud. What is evident, however, is that the narrator
is projecting his own failures onto Givens. These failures include a man who
knows in his gut that he is squandering his existence on laziness, self-pity,
and vain self-delusion and rather than face his shortcomings he would rather
divert his energy to hating Givens.
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